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DittyF's avatar

This is a tremendous piece. It resonated with me in a personal as well as a political way.

I was systematically gaslit as a child, by my parents, about the nature of familial, psychological, and social reality. Both mother and father wanted, defensively, to deprive us of agency. My sibling was insulated against this as an extravert with a large social circle. As an introvert, I was more susceptible. I learned what but not how to think. In fact I had no idea about the " what", and a barely nascent instinct for the "how".

In my 20s, I became gradually, then suddenly, aware that the ostensibly ethical, but in fact, dishonest system of beliefs in which I had been immersed was faulty.

As you put it:

“When new information contradicts those patterns in ways that don’t make sense, when it requires you to abandon multiple connected understandings rather than just adjust one belief, your framework signals: *something is wrong here.*”

I hadn’t realized how much intellectual, emotional and moral passivity I had accepted in the interests of safety. What genuinely appalled me in my 20s was the inability I’d had in my teens to suspect that this dissonance existed.

You articulated perfectly the real meaning of coherence and the interplay of values, emotion and reason. I think that coherence is integrity, in the sense of a wholeness, “commited to the questions that make genuine understanding possible.” I think my curiosity helped save my reason, as perhaps also did my staunch belief in a secular morality that my parents articulated but did not practise.

I’m grateful for all your work, but in particular for this essay. I thank you so much!

Tom Wood's avatar

When Corey Lewandowski and the MAGA influencers spread the concept that Bad Bunny and Puerto Ricans aren't American, they know exactly what they are doing. They aren't ignorant of the facts of American citizenship, but are depending on their followers to be so. Their goal is to foment hate of the other (immigrants) and the fear that the other is already within.

Which raises the question: Why are they intentionally spreading mis-, dis-, and malinformation, aka MDM? Could it be that they want to destroy the coherence that underpins democracy? (That's another discussion!) If so, isn't the necessary response much bigger than teaching people how to think? Since there are numerous well-funded think tanks and media outlets dedicated to spreading MDM on an industrial scale, how does a one-on-one discussion have any hope of affecting the tsunami of confusion? How does that scale?

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